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Should I Buy Her a Drink?

Updated: Dec 4

Can I Buy her over?

In other words, the more I spend the faster   Quite frankly the more you spend don’t feel spending more or lavishing her with gifts will speedyup anything. A girl can be provided for and just walk away a week later or just forget. Our job is not to understand women but understand their feline like nature. 


So even in providers, she is selective. So even if you wanted to work the cash provider angle, it’s still random so mine as well goes for what you really want. (I’ve tried it)


A lot of the old community would speak of switches and flipping such and such, but those are nebulous concepts to have you buy their 350 system and boot camps laced with prostitutes.   And the mind is complex on the internal and external to compare it to a breaker box at a micro level.


 Hopefully, I’ve given you the right perception of money as well. Save your money and invest it in yourself, save it, or invest it in a venture that can bring back the money. 


A virtue thus hurting any chance for sex. Now I know there is a law out there of reciprocity. Buy her something and then she owes you. Throw it out. That works perhaps the first couple of times, but how long can you keep that up? And it gradually evolves with bribes to get her out. Don’t say I didn't warn you. Now there is an exception, and this is completely situational, does not happen often but you can buy her a drink if for a fact you know the chances of going back home with her are pretty good. Remember this is a game, you can do all the right things for it to go south right on your bed.


Getting your shit together is something you love mom, have a good job, and are stable. These things are for what’s called the inner game. If you are off in your finances, for example, you may be a bit stressed when you get to the date because you are thinking about gas money, you are budgeting the coffee that if you choose to only pay for yourself. ETC ETC.


This is yall first date, so let her buy her things. Go halves, this is the first layer if you provide, don’t go over 25$. This is Texas-based pay, obviously, if you live in Cali, this can increase just like if you were in Bangladesh, it would decrease. The point is, don’t be afraid to invest in creating an opportunity that can teach you something, and also may lead to sex. In other words, it can be enough for two cups of coffee and a max of two medium meals.


Buying Drinks.

I’m about to contradict myself—but hear me out. You can usually tell when a woman is trying to finesse you, but there are moments when taking a calculated risk can open doors. I often emphasize getting your finances in order because, while the approach is free, money fuels the adventures that follow.



Green Light

When I approach, I’m ready to assess the situation. I know some women will try to put me in a box, but I trust my ability to spot the signs and decline if necessary. On the flip side, a sign of genuine interest might be her offering to buy me a drink or needing a bit of liquid courage as the night progresses. In those cases, I might entertain the idea. Either way, I’m prepared to make my move with confidence.

Red Light

A red flag? If she’s asking me to buy drinks for her and her friends, or worse—roses and food. At that point, it’s game over. Walk away or play dumb, but don’t fall for it. The more she values her entourage over the connection, the more costly the night will get. Trust your instincts when it comes to paying for entry fees and drinks; every situation is different.

Pro Tip: Play It Smart

The easiest way to save your money? Feign ignorance. If they catch on and push, it’s a clear sign they’re more interested in your wallet than you. Remember, night game differs from day game. On a date, you’re inviting her out—that’s a different story. But in a club or bar setting, here are a few simple tactics to avoid paying for drinks:

  • “I need to hit the restroom.”

  • “I forgot my wallet.”

  • “I lost my stuff.”

Know the difference, play smart, and always stay in control.

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