Assume you know a little about her so you can pull on the right threads. That is how you keep a conversation moving. If she gives you a unique name, you might say, “Oh, is that Italian?” Whether she says yes or no, you have opened a new lane. Same thing if she says she is in school or working. You can say, “You work in the medical field, don’t you?” She will usually correct you or expand on it, and now you have more to work with. If she tells you what she does for a living, a