Success in dating requires balance. If you can approach multiple women without drawing attention from earlier interactions, go for it. But sometimes, you’ll meet one woman, only to spot someone more appealing nearby. What should you do? Focus on needs, not greed or, if she is just delectable, excuse yourself with the all purpose closer, "I want to go say hi to my friend". That is only If you want to leave a good impression on the first woman, other than that, don’t bother—women can be jealous and they will sense competition only increasing your value. Still, remember that attraction is constant.
If you decide to pursue more women in the same venue, just go for it, but expect for one of them to bust your balls or see that you are a player. It's a shit test, and you should flip on her in a playful manner in the event that she is attracted. You can use things like:
We have not gone on our first date, and youre allready possesive.
Or
“She’s just a friend” or “That’s my cousin.”
Is it lying, sure. Whats new under the Sun? In fact, many are turned on by pre-selection—seeing you interact with other women signals social value and status. Everything they say or do should be perceived as flirting, and you will be able to recognize the crazy ones with their outlandish mood swinge, bid her farewell or just stay clear that you do not know that person.
Overcoming Fear and Embracing the Bad Boy Persona
Guys need to get over the fear that starting a conversation with a stranger is “weird” or “creepy,” that being seductive or escalating things sexually is “needy,” or that pursuing attraction is “perverted.”
If you want to be attractive, abundant, and seductive, you need to be ready to risk looking creepy. Not only that, but you must be prepared to be called out.
Let me introduce you to the "Nudist Buddhist" concept:
The Nudist Buddhist (NB) embodies two extremes. You might think you're a paragon of virtue, someone who can create multiple identities for yourself—but the core of who you are remains unchanged. The NB is like trying to be both “nice” and “bad boy”—you can’t be both. It messes with people who live in stereotypes. Women, being social creatures, need to know where you stand; incongruencies are barely tolerated.
So, adopt the "bad boy" persona—the guy who’s just a ladies' man. Join the Dark Side—we promise, we have cookies. The point is, embracing this persona can help break down the barriers society tries to impose through shame.
Let There Be No Shame in Your Game
Don’t let anyone—men or women, kings or peasants—make you feel ashamed for approaching. In doing so, you challenge societal norms, and your eyes will tell a story of discovery that some will try to extinguish.
Shame will come in all shapes, sizes, and directions. Women will talk, even hot women. Some women are haters when men develop the freedom to create their own options because it diminishes their power over you. Society will talk. Well-meaning citizens will tell you not to play with women. Religious figures will tell you to settle down. It’s a universal energy that manifests in rigid souls to test you and your ability to reproduce.
Did you know discovering you could be someone different is an actual revelation? Yet, what is unknown can provoke knee-jerk reactions from those who don’t understand Pickup and Game.
You’re not hurting anyone. In fact, you’re only hurting the women you don’t approach. If your friends call you a creep or point out that you’re “doing Game,” I recommend you find new friends. They will pull you back into your old form.
The good news? Some will even watch in awe—“Oh shit, he’s hitting on that chick.” I’ve seen women work together to keep men in this imaginary cage of ignorance about female nature. So shine bright, take pride in being a sexual man, and let no obstacle deter you. Let them inspire you to keep doing what you're doing.
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