THE ASSUMING GAME - The Art of Getting Her to Open Up

Assume you know a little about her so you can pull on the right threads. That is how you keep a conversation moving. If she gives you a unique name, you might say, “Oh, is that Italian?” Whether she says yes or no, you have opened a new lane.

Same thing if she says she is in school or working. You can say, “You work in the medical field, don’t you?” She will usually correct you or expand on it, and now you have more to work with. If she tells you what she does for a living, ask her why she chose that path. That creates even more conversation. Before long, you will know whether you are interested in her personality, not just her looks. It may even come off like you are a little too curious, but that is not always a bad thing. In fact, it helps you get to know her faster.

ASSIGNMENT

Get a notebook or a file and start writing everything down about her. What does your specific type of woman look like? What do you look like, more on that later? How does she behave in a relationship or open relationship? How many women do you want? What kind of man do you need to be on a day to day basis?

We usually know what we should be doing, but we procrastinate until something finally hits us emotionally. That is probably why you are here. Write down the qualities you think will attract her. After two or three revisions, you may realize that what you thought you wanted is not