Surrounding yourself with The Right People

Finding love and companionship can be a daunting task. For many, the fear of rejection and taking risks keeps them in a safe, comfortable zone. But here’s the thing: the only way to find success in your dating life is to be willing to step outside of your comfort zone and take risks.

That’s why it’s so important to remove any negative or toxic people from your social circles that you are boinking. Those who are quick to criticize, overly critical, and discourage your attempts to better yourself should be taken with a grain of salt and dismissed with a distance poll. It may seem cold and ruthless, but the truth is, if you don’t take control of your Circles of Influence they will impact your dating life.

Some people are constantly competing with you, they are insulting, and they lack pussy. And so everywhere you go and you try to help them out, they are quick to throw you under the bus to make themselves feel better. Well, I got something that they hate, but don't know. Keep it positive, and distance yourself. they know what they are doing. This person can at times lead you down a bad road, whether it's drugs or just a bad business move.

How to Believe in Yourself and Break Free of Negativity

When I first began approaching women in clubs, I was naive and unaware of the potential influences and negative people that I could come across. I had once invited friend out to go meet women, as gamed this girl, i told him it was a night out to the game, the guy saw his chance with this girl and ditched me. Which i found kind of messed up. But in the end, i understood and lord behold they broke up not too long ago, and hasn't had a girl friend since. I think we would of had more experiences with more women, but he chose to show me his true nature.

I had broken away from my smoking/high school punk skating what ever friends to meet women outside our closely diminishing social circles. whom I shared my findings and experiences with, like new women, tactics, and venues. They seem to take it as a joke, it was fun and games up until i started taking action. The shy guy dared to call me out on my routines this one night i had this awesome make out in front of him. One of the "self delusional alphas" even went so far as to call me a creeper. The other guy know as my best friend simply called one of my exes telling her that i was doing some weird shit. So as you can see it was not welcomed, and i soon stopped trying.

With no one to tell me to stay away from these people, I ended up staying longer than I should have, and eventually, I became like them. I was back to square one, but worse because I knew I wasn't approaching as much. My discoveries soon became a buried treasure in my mind, just another memory.

However, I eventually emerged from this dark period and realized that i was working one of the cooles clubs with lot of latin Spanish-speaking women. I was slowly becoming like my employer. And i noticed that a ton of the time i would wear a costume and i would dance, and spank chicks on the dance floor, so they took me off. I then chilled and started drinking more because i was bored outside. Then i decided that this guy didn't game much, he was just known. I realized that i needed to separate from him and do my own thing outside since i don't think grinding on women would help much.

I decided to get fit, and increase my approach outside the club and inside. my approach to dating and meeting new people was one of the most valuable lessons I could have ever learned. I now have the skills and knowledge to approach women confidently and with results. I high light this because its important to realize, that men can also pull you down.

I have also learned to stay away from negative people and influence others for the mere fact that I go for what makes my heart glow with excitement. I focus on who I surround myself with. This is mostly those who inspire and motivate me. My journey has taught me that I can achieve anything, take the good from people and that i need to be selective who i spend my time with.

Mentors

Finding the right advice for your dating life can be hard, but don't let that stop you from learning from the best. While it's important to take advice from friends, family and mentors, relying solely on them can be restrictive and isn't always the best option. Take charge of your own dating life, and seek what makes you happy and the men who are dating the women you like or are your Ideal Type. Invite your friends or simply men that are better than you out for drinks, be humble and cool, and absorb all the advice you can. Don't be close-minded or set on your ways, and you'll be surprised with the results. Learning from people who have mastered the art of dating can help you gain valuable insights into what it takes to succeed in the modern dating world.

How to bring value to your Social Circles!

To humanity, what number are you? Let's say you said 3 days, everyone wants you! ok let's start from 3m, how can you go from your current level to a better 3-day person? A Person people want around, and valuable people especially.

1. Identify ways to add value to the people around you. Take a step back and assess what you can do to help people around you. It may be something as simple as listening to someone when they need it or helping out with a task they are struggling with. Thinking about how you can be of service to others is a great start.

2. Establish yourself as someone who follows through. People value integrity, so make sure you're someone who can be counted on. This means honoring your commitments, delivering on promises, and following through on what you say you're going to do.

3. Find your own voice. Speak up and share your thoughts and ideas with the world. People want to hear what you have to say, so make sure you're getting heard.

4. Work on your communication skills. Being a great communicator can help you build relationships with those around you. Learn how to talk through disagreements, explain your ideas, and have difficult conversations in a way that is respectful and productive.5. Be honest and trustworthy. People want to be around others they can trust. Make sure you keep your word, follow through on your commitments, and strive to be honest in all of your interactions.

Summary

To be more approachable, start by accepting social invitations and keeping your word. When inviting others, make your events appealing by providing clear, engaging reasons to join, and consider hosting regular gatherings that foster meaningful connections. Pay attention to women's friendliness and body language, and enhance your interactions with humor, confidence, and vivid, sensory descriptions that evoke emotions. Shift your mindset from “picking up girls” to making friends and allowing women to get to know you naturally. Take advantage of situational opportunities, like engaging a woman as she’s leaving, with simple, direct communication. Finally, focus on meaningful actions rather than overwhelming yourself with every opportunity, as Brian Tracy’s advice suggests: tackle the most significant challenges first.

Conclusion: Create a Positive Environment

Don't let the misfortunes of others drag you down - choose to surround yourself with those who are happy and prosperous. Life is too short to waste on those who don't appreciate it, so be intentional about who you spend your time with. Doing this will not only benefit you, but it will also benefit those around you as you can be a positive force in their lives and show them that anything is possible with hard work and dedication.

#dating #sigma #date #sigmadating #sigmamotivation #datingchallenge #datinglife #datingadvice #datingadviceformen

#sigmatips #redpill