The Sigma Dress Guide

"People whose opinions you value, and those who truly matter, will both notice and respond to how you present yourself. What you wear sends a message" - Jorge Martinez

It's better to spend good money on two attires because looks in certain senses, matter. This also removes the excuse that you are not ready to approach HER. Combined with proper hygiene and grooming, you'll put out an underlying confidence that is hard to shake!

So put thought into your clothing, many men will feel odd at first, but this is a normal part of the process in bettering yourself and your chances out in the dating field with HER.

This Brings Instant Change

And according to my experience, there are several ways in which we can learn and change. The outer parts are the easiest to change (clothing, jewelry, location, etc.), and the inner levels are the most difficult.

You need to use external sources like clothing to help the internal factors grow in confidence but they are not a crutch. That is why I condone grooming, manscaping, and dressing sharp, as part of the Caveman Challenge to help you realize you don't need these things but that they help, just like finance and looks. I also know that I can look like I just got out of the gym all sweaty and take action with zero excuses.

But never be a total slob, for you will attract what you are both internally and externally either someone just as bad as you or nothing at all because females are glamorous and beautiful. Think about it, if you went out, would you want the highest chance of attracting a girl from the start? Of course, so give yourself that winning chance and don't be set on your old ways. As men we assume, we dress well but the reality is, we can improve. I can still improve. We wear clothing that does or doesn’t fit. We at times don't match. Dress for success. They often say to dress for the job you want, and that to some degree is true, something that I look at but don't wholeheartedly do is pay attention to what the men who are accompanied with what I consider as my ideal ten. This by no means is a law of attraction thing where the girl now just comes to you, but when you do approach and get to know her, it helps her mind just a tiny bit more. And that is the trick, compounding tiny little wins for a big success.

First thing, dress to your personality. Be proactive about how you dress, even if it’s just a trip to the gym have awareness that you aren't completely in drags. Set your standard.

The 2nd thing, buy a black set and a brown set of shoes, a black jacket, black belt. Lighter and dark wash on jeans, and around 5-7 shirts. Then mix and match. Gold with gold, silver with silver. Brown with light, black with darker shirts.

• Always be upgrading your wardrobe as applicable and as needed,

• Don't be afraid to make fashion mistakes it's part of becoming suave.

• Do some research on guys that are good with the women you are attracted to, who fit your body structure, ethnicity you know.

The 3rd thing, see what hairstyle you see on yourself when succeeding with women.

As you take action, this thing starts auto-correcting and you start attracting the resources, and people to aid you on this wonderful journey. Ask for recommendations from women that you meet throughout the challenge. The seeking of answers makes for a great opener. If you were expected to run errands and see your ideal girl, how would you like for her to see you in the day or night? This gives you a special perspective on what to choose or clarify in either slightly dressing down or up.

Last note, Luckily, Men are not judged trough physical dimension, but more on style, grooming and how we present ourselves. WE are very lucky in this regard because women are always trying to optimize their physical appearance. Now let me add, that you are not doing this for the girl, you are doing this for you. Yes, so looks and money do matter, the less of good looks and money you have, the more attractive qualities you will need. The more attractive qualities you have, the less you need money. Dressing up triples your success ratio, and it has psychological benefits to you and the girl. You don’t need money, looks, to start attracting the woman of your dreams, but you do need to take bold decisive action because that is more attractive than the luxurious home, six-pack, and Lambo you think you need. Those things can be acquired along the way.

Here are the tips:

· Manscaping 101. There are no longer metrosexuals, only men that care about their appearance and those who don’t. Tweeze the unibrow and get a nose hair trimmer. Remove any neck hair. If you are hairier than most, do some landscaping and trimming. Purchasing a trimmer kit can be great investment.

· Lose the bifocals. Get either cool styled glass, laser surgery, or contacts. The more you can see, the better.

· Upgrade your smile. Buy over-the-counter tooth whiteners such as Crest White Strips, or gel paste that comes with a mouth guard to whiten your teeth. Start today. If you have been holding off on seeing the dentist for a checkup, braces, or clear braces, get it to don’t. Your smile is your number one priority in the first impression.

· Have a cool breath. Start flossing every day. Get a tongue scraper if you have to. Have gum or mints with you all the time and if you can’t, brush your teeth every day.

· I mentioned being fat earlier because I know that you can't transform from one day to another, but the fact that you are working on it, makes it attractive for the girl. Get a gym membership or participate in a fitness program. Make fitness a lifestyle. Learn to cook. Start a 30-, 60-, or 90-day program from home or at the gym. The resources are endless. But if you are looking for my personal approach, I’ve designed a course that can help you get started. A gym is best because you are exposed to more people, and you become more accountable. Get a fitness evaluation and ask for muscle tone and fat loss to get started if you choose to get a trainer. If you combine this challenge with a fitness goal, you’ll see an amplification of motivation that you have never experienced before.

· Get a nice cologne.

· Clip your nails, every detail matters.

The final tip, always change out your clothe and Eliminate clothes you don’t use,Are you looking to be the bad boy, macho, or the asshole? Until this day, that is what it takes to become an alpha. But what if I told you that these notions are also wrong. What if I told you there is a level beyond Nice, Alpha or Pick Up Artist?

Being You. Yup that is it. Getting back on the Road to Self Development. But that is contradictory because if that was the case, you'd be elsewhere, with the perfect life and the perfect woman no? What I mean is bringing out your authentic self and peeling back the layers of social conditioning. Understanding that this too shall pass.

In the Dating realm, cold approach This will allow you to sharpen up your identity to more attractive qualities that will really strengthen your current identity and as it becomes genuine and authentic, you become interested and real. You also get that feeling when you are asked what you would do differently if you could go to your past self.

Here are a few Mindsets to enhance the current state. Im redefining what it is to be a man. And what a Sigma is. A sigma is anything but beta or alpha or man of purpose. A Sigma has self-awareness, lives in the present, and has a presence. basically is a man on purpose, but his purpose does not cloud him from enjoying today or feeling that he is missing anything or anyone.

Decide to be meticulous about what you want. Do you want to be an open relationship type of guy, or do you want a relationship? It's nice to be in a relationship. But you can have more if you let me teach you.

By changing the external the internal will change. So work on both through self-development, Dressing up, elevating your company and physical fitness.

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